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  • Words, Thinking & Typos?

    Words, Thinking & Typos?

    About THINKING by Kat

    Reposted from “Empty Shells” on Substack.com

    I was raised by a professor and a teacher. I went to an “elite” international school. I studied law and philosophy. I completely identified with what I believed was my ability to think.

    Thinking was mandatory: no thinking, no result.
    Everything needed an intellectual approach, by default.

    But I was incredibly lucky to eventually find out that thinking about things does nothing. It is pointless. And instead of turning me into an incapable idiot as I feared, all it did was uncover peace.

    It’s not like there’s nothing left to think about.
    It’s that thinking doesn’t do anything and there’s no one in control of it anyway.

    Thoughts are about an imaginary future or past, things not under control, or fictional separate agents. The body doesn’t function because of thinking. Interactions are smoother without thinking. Speaking, writing, and other pursuits only flow while ignoring thoughts. Pleasure and joy are ruined by thinking, as we all know …

    Even planning, reasoning, calculating … do we have to think about them for them to happen?

    Things happen and don’t happen despite voluminous thinking, just look around.

    Thoughts are empty shells. And so is the thinker.
    Where is this thinker we simply assume exists?

    I can’t remember why I cared so much about thinking.
    I prefer peace now.

        

    About Words (by Ralph)

    On 28 Jan 2026, at 5:09, Ralph wrote:

    1. “Be mindful when it comes to your words. A string of some that don’t mean much to you, may stick with someone else for a lifetime.” -Rachel Wolchin
    2. “Be careful with your words. Once they are said, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten.” -Unknown
    3. “Words are free. It’s how you use them that may cost you.” -KushandWizdom
    4. “Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” -Rumi
    5. “…But the human tongue is a beast that few can master. It strains constantly to break out of its cage, and if it is not tamed, it will run wild and cause you grief.” -Unknown
    6. “The secret of being boring is to say everything.” -Voltaire
    7. “One kind word can change someone’s entire day.” -Unknown
    8. “Handle them carefully, for words have more power than atom bombs.” -Pearl Strachan Hurd
    9. “Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate, and to humble.” -Yehuda Berg
    10. “My task, which I am trying to achieve is, by the power of the written word, to make you hear, to make you feel–it is, before all, to make you see.” -Joseph Conrad
    11. “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -Mother Teresa
    12. “The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words.” -Unknown
    13. “Be careful what you say. You can say something hurtful in ten seconds, but ten years later, the wounds are still there.”
    14. “All I need is a sheet of paper and something to write with, and then I can turn the world upside down.” -Friedrich Nietzsche
    15. “Don’t mix bad words with your bad mood. You’ll have many opportunities to change a mood, but you’ll never get the opportunity to replace the words you spoke.” -Unknown
    16. “Don’t ever diminish the power of words. Words move hearts and hearts move limbs.” -Hamza Yusuf
    17. “Words are seeds that do more than blow around. They land in our hearts and not the ground. Be careful what you plant and careful what you say. You might have to eat what you planted one day.” -Unknown
    18. “Words have no power to impress the mind without the exquisite horror of their reality.” -Edgar Allan Poe
    19. “A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever.” -Jessamyn West
    20. “Good words are worth much, and cost little.” -George Herbert
    21. “Your words have power. Speak words that are kind, loving, positive, uplifting, encouraging, and life-giving.” -Unknown
    22. “Kind words are a creative force, a power that concurs in the building up of all that is good, and energy that showers blessings upon the world.” -Lawrence G. Lovasik
    23. “No matter what anybody tells you, words and ideas can change the world.” -John Keating
    24. “The best word shakers were the ones who understood the true power of words. They were the ones who could climb the highest.” -Markus Zusak
    25. “Speech has power. Words do not fade. What starts out as a sound, ends in a deed.” -Abraham Joshua Herschel
    26. “If we understood the power of our thoughts, we would guard them more closely. If we understood the awesome power of our words, we would prefer silence to almost anything negative. In our thoughts and words, we create our own weaknesses and our own strengths. Our limitations and joys begin in our hearts. We can always replace negative with positive.” -Betty Eadie

        

    Funny typos

    On 1 Feb 2026, at 6:06, Ralph wrote:

    CHURCH BULLETINS
    Thank God for church ladies with typewriters. These sentences, with their typos or slips of tongue, actually appeared in church bulletins or were announced in church services:

    The sermon this morning: “Jesus Walks on Water.” The sermon tonight: “Searching for Jesus.”

    Ladies, don’t forget the rummage sale. It’s a chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Don’t forget to bring your husbands.

    The peacemaking meeting scheduled for today has been canceled due to a conflict.

    Remember in prayer the many who are sick of our community.

    For those of you who have children and don’t know it, we have a nursery downstairs.

    Next Thursday there will be tryouts for the choir. They need all the help they can get.

    Barbara remains in the hospital and needs blood donors for more transfusions. She is also having trouble sleeping and requests tapes of Pastor Jack’s sermons.

    The Rector will preach his farewell message after which the choir will sing: “Break Forth Into Joy.”

    A rice-and-bean supper will be held on Tuesday evening in the church hall. Music will follow.

    At the evening service tonight, the sermon topic will be “What Is Hell?” Come early and listen to our choir practice.

    The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment and gracious hostility.

    Potluck supper Sunday at 5:00 PM–prayer and medication to follow.

    The ladies of the Church have cast off clothing of every kind. They may be seen in the basement on Friday afternoon.

    This evening at 7 PM there will be hymn-singing in the park across from the Church. So bring a blanket and come prepared to sin.

    Ladies Bible Study will be held Thursday morning at 10 AM. All ladies are invited to lunch in the Fellowship Hall after the B.S. is done.

    Low Self Esteem Support Group will meet Thursday at 7 PM. Please use the back door.

    The eighth-graders will be presenting Shakespeare’s Hamlet in the Church basement Friday at 7 PM. The congregation is invited to attend this great tragedy.

    The rosebud on the altar this morning is to announce the birth of David Alan Belzer, the sin of Rev. and Mrs. Julius Belzer.

    This afternoon there will be a meeting in the south and north ends of the church. Children will be baptized at both ends.

    Tuesday at 4 p.m. there will be an ice cream social. All ladies giving milk will please come early.

    Wednesday, the Ladies Liturgy Society will meet. Mrs. Jones will sing “Put Me In My Little Bed” accompanied by the pastor.

    Thursday at 5:00 p.m. there will be a meeting of the Little Mothers Club. All wishing to become little mothers, please see the minister in his study.

    This being Easter Sunday, we will ask Mrs. Lewis to come forward and lay an egg on the altar.

    The Associate Minister unveiled the church’s new tithing campaign slogan last Sunday: “I Upped My Pledge–Up Yours”

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  • Memory

    Memory

    Thank you Ralph!

    Memory comes up in the form of thoughts and images in the present moment like any other thought activity. So memory is a form of thought. Memories are present thoughts that arise and pass in present-moment awareness. Practically speaking, memory seems to be a function that ties together, coordinates and recalls former thoughts. It appears to store concepts and images and bring them forth. Conditioned beliefs, such as the notion of being a separate self and all the related identifications, survive in memory. Without memory, they have no substance, no continuity, no real existence. So, in a sense, you can say that all our problems are due to the capacity of memory. All of our beliefs, points of view and assumptions appear to be stored there. Furthermore, the reference point of a fixed ‘I’, thinker or self only resides in memory.

    Memory as a thing in itself is hard to pin down. It is like the concept of ‘the mind’. Where is ‘the mind’? There are thoughts passing through awareness, but where is ‘the mind’ apart from that? It is the same with memory. We posit such a function or entity, but where is it apart from the presently arising thoughts? It just so happens that we label some presently occurring thoughts as memories. Then we assume a past to which those memories refer. In this way, a whole conceptual world is spun up in thoughts. But they are all occurring here and now in present awareness. It is castles in air being constructed in thought. In a moment, we are conceiving of a past time, a past world, a past entity that was in that world, a memory to hold all that and ourselves as some of kind being present in the middle of all of it. But take a deeper look and see what is going on. In present awareness, present thoughts are appearing and disappearing. It is all purely conceptual, purely imagined. Time, the external world and the separate entity are all posited in thought. They are taken as real, but are not actually present as substantial things in themselves.

    This is easy to see in the case of a dream. You fall into a dream state. In that dream state, you have a discussion with a friend about something you did together five years ago (in the dream). A normal conversation occurs and you and your dream friend discuss various events that happened. Appropriate memories appear to corroborate everything. When you wake up you look back and see that it was all fabricated in the mind in the moment of dreaming. There was no past at all. Not to mention that there were no real dream characters either! It was all appearances taken as real. However, awareness stands beyond, free and untouched. It is not even in the dream. The dream is in it. It suffers no limitations occurring in the dream. The awareness itself is no limited appearance in the dream. It is not any particular entity or object in the dream. It is the same with our present awareness in this apparent waking state.

    Conventionally, you can say that the mind creates the notion of a substantial, independent self and that this belief is sustained in memory. There is no harm in that as far as it goes. But the truth is that it is all simply present thoughts. And there is no separate thinker or ‘me’ to be found.

    Your actual identity is that space-like, utterly free awareness itself. All self-centered thoughts are baseless, as there is no one to whom they apply. See this clearly and there is really nothing else needed. It is the heart of the matter. Seeing this, suffering, doubt, seeking and personal problems vanish entirely.

    John Wheeler

    Holger:

    “Before Abraham was I am.”

    “I am with you always.”

    “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

    “The world” is thoughts, feelings, perceptions.
    “Who do you say I am?”

    What are you?
    The answer is not in the mind, is not in the realm of thinking (this world). ❤️