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Spiegel im Spiegel for Cello and Piano (Arvo Pärt)
Leonhard Roczek – Cello
Herbert Schuch – PianoArvo PƤrt: Spiegel im Spiegel (1978)
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Martin Buber: God is experienced through Relationship
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“The provided text explores the 20th-century philosophy ofĀ Martin Buber, who redefined the divine as an experience found throughĀ human connectionĀ rather than abstract doctrine. Buber distinguished between theĀ “I-It”Ā relationship, where we treat the world as a collection of objects to be used, and theĀ “I-Thou”Ā encounter, which involves aĀ living presenceĀ between two beings. In this framework,Ā GodĀ is not a distant entity to be analyzed but theĀ “Eternal Thou”Ā who becomes visible whenever people engage inĀ authentic, transparent dialogue. Modern life often forces individuals into transactional roles, yet Buber argues thatĀ true faithĀ is a participation in these deep, relational moments. Ultimately, the source suggests that theĀ divine horizonĀ is touched not through logic, but through theĀ profound act of being fully presentĀ with another.”
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Attitude (C.Ā SWINDOLL)

“The longer I live,
the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.
Attitude, to me, is more important than facts.
It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say or do.
It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill.
It will make or break a company… a church… a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past…
we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play the one string we have, and that is our attitude…
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.
And so it is with you… we are in charge of our Attitudes.”
Holger:
I like Charles’ 10/90% formula.I had my own attempt to become scientific:
“The sense of separation
is 10% faulty thinking
and 90% muscle-memory.”Yes, attitude is fundamental, but who is in charge?
Is there a personal, separate “me” that can change, or is beneficial change the byproduct of a deeper embrace of Being; seeing that we are not who we think we are.
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Words, Thinking & Typos?
About THINKING by Kat
Reposted from “Empty Shells” on Substack.com
I was raised by a professor and a teacher. I went to an āeliteā international school. I studied law and philosophy. I completely identified with what I believed was my ability to think.
Thinking was mandatory: no thinking, no result.
Everything needed an intellectual approach, by default.But I was incredibly lucky to eventually find out that thinking about things does nothing. It is pointless. And instead of turning me into an incapable idiot as I feared, all it did was uncover peace.
Itās not like thereās nothing left to think about.
Itās that thinking doesnāt do anything and thereās no one in control of it anyway.Thoughts are about an imaginary future or past, things not under control, or fictional separate agents. The body doesnāt function because of thinking. Interactions are smoother without thinking. Speaking, writing, and other pursuits only flow while ignoring thoughts. Pleasure and joy are ruined by thinking, as we all know ā¦
Even planning, reasoning, calculating ⦠do we have to think about them for them to happen?
Things happen and donāt happen despite voluminous thinking, just look around.
Thoughts are empty shells. And so is the thinker.
Where is this thinker we simply assume exists?I canāt remember why I cared so much about thinking.
I prefer peace now.Ā Ā Ā Ā
About Words (by Ralph)
On 28 Jan 2026, at 5:09, Ralph wrote:
- “Be mindful when it comes to your words. A string of some that don’t mean much to you, may stick with someone else for a lifetime.” -Rachel Wolchin
- “Be careful with your words. Once they are said, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten.” -Unknown
- “Words are free. It’s how you use them that may cost you.” -KushandWizdom
- “Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” -Rumi
- “ā¦But the human tongue is a beast that few can master. It strains constantly to break out of its cage, and if it is not tamed, it will run wild and cause you grief.” -Unknown
- “The secret of being boring is to say everything.” -Voltaire
- “One kind word can change someone’s entire day.” -Unknown
- “Handle them carefully, for words have more power than atom bombs.” -Pearl Strachan Hurd
- “Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate, and to humble.” -Yehuda Berg
- “My task, which I am trying to achieve is, by the power of the written word, to make you hear, to make you feel–it is, before all, to make you see.” -Joseph Conrad
- “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -Mother Teresa
- “The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words.” -Unknown
- “Be careful what you say. You can say something hurtful in ten seconds, but ten years later, the wounds are still there.”
- “All I need is a sheet of paper and something to write with, and then I can turn the world upside down.” -Friedrich Nietzsche
- “Don’t mix bad words with your bad mood. You’ll have many opportunities to change a mood, but you’ll never get the opportunity to replace the words you spoke.” -Unknown
- “Don’t ever diminish the power of words. Words move hearts and hearts move limbs.” -Hamza Yusuf
- “Words are seeds that do more than blow around. They land in our hearts and not the ground. Be careful what you plant and careful what you say. You might have to eat what you planted one day.” -Unknown
- “Words have no power to impress the mind without the exquisite horror of their reality.” -Edgar Allan Poe
- “A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever.” -Jessamyn West
- “Good words are worth much, and cost little.” -George Herbert
- “Your words have power. Speak words that are kind, loving, positive, uplifting, encouraging, and life-giving.” -Unknown
- “Kind words are a creative force, a power that concurs in the building up of all that is good, and energy that showers blessings upon the world.” -Lawrence G. Lovasik
- “No matter what anybody tells you, words and ideas can change the world.” -John Keating
- “The best word shakers were the ones who understood the true power of words. They were the ones who could climb the highest.” -Markus Zusak
- “Speech has power. Words do not fade. What starts out as a sound, ends in a deed.” -Abraham Joshua Herschel
- “If we understood the power of our thoughts, we would guard them more closely. If we understood the awesome power of our words, we would prefer silence to almost anything negative. In our thoughts and words, we create our own weaknesses and our own strengths. Our limitations and joys begin in our hearts. We can always replace negative with positive.” -Betty Eadie
Ā Ā Ā Ā
Funny typos
On 1 Feb 2026, at 6:06, Ralph wrote:
CHURCH BULLETINS
Thank God for church ladies with typewriters. These sentences, with their typos or slips of tongue, actually appeared in church bulletins or were announced in church services:The sermon this morning: āJesus Walks on Water.ā The sermon tonight: āSearching for Jesus.ā
Ladies, donāt forget the rummage sale. Itās a chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Donāt forget to bring your husbands.
The peacemaking meeting scheduled for today has been canceled due to a conflict.
Remember in prayer the many who are sick of our community.
For those of you who have children and donāt know it, we have a nursery downstairs.
Next Thursday there will be tryouts for the choir. They need all the help they can get.
Barbara remains in the hospital and needs blood donors for more transfusions. She is also having trouble sleeping and requests tapes of Pastor Jackās sermons.
The Rector will preach his farewell message after which the choir will sing: āBreak Forth Into Joy.ā
A rice-and-bean supper will be held on Tuesday evening in the church hall. Music will follow.
At the evening service tonight, the sermon topic will be āWhat Is Hell?ā Come early and listen to our choir practice.
The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment and gracious hostility.
Potluck supper Sunday at 5:00 PM–prayer and medication to follow.
The ladies of the Church have cast off clothing of every kind. They may be seen in the basement on Friday afternoon.
This evening at 7 PM there will be hymn-singing in the park across from the Church. So bring a blanket and come prepared to sin.
Ladies Bible Study will be held Thursday morning at 10 AM. All ladies are invited to lunch in the Fellowship Hall after the B.S. is done.
Low Self Esteem Support Group will meet Thursday at 7 PM. Please use the back door.
The eighth-graders will be presenting Shakespeareās Hamlet in the Church basement Friday at 7 PM. The congregation is invited to attend this great tragedy.
The rosebud on the altar this morning is to announce the birth of David Alan Belzer, the sin of Rev. and Mrs. Julius Belzer.
This afternoon there will be a meeting in the south and north ends of the church. Children will be baptized at both ends.
Tuesday at 4 p.m. there will be an ice cream social. All ladies giving milk will please come early.
Wednesday, the Ladies Liturgy Society will meet. Mrs. Jones will sing āPut Me In My Little Bedā accompanied by the pastor.
Thursday at 5:00 p.m. there will be a meeting of the Little Mothers Club. All wishing to become little mothers, please see the minister in his study.
This being Easter Sunday, we will ask Mrs. Lewis to come forward and lay an egg on the altar.
The Associate Minister unveiled the churchās new tithing campaign slogan last Sunday: āI Upped My Pledge–Up Yoursā

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My Dutch Woman
I have nothing to protect,
I am not afraid to be hurt.I am not this body-mind called Holger,
yet beyond doubt, I AM!My happiness and fulfillment
is not dependent on circumstances.Inner space ā peace from the mind ā come by grace; are priceless gifts, our birthright.
The me-belief, the hunger to be someone, was the veil hiding in plain sight what I was longing for.
Meeting and loving my Dutch Woman is not added from outside, but a maturity and ripeness beyond words.
It is wonderful to share,
for the benefit of all,
which includes myself.Love,
Holger
PS: One day… MatingDepartment.com, just for fun.
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Memory
Thank you Ralph!
Memory comes up in the form of thoughts and images in the present moment like any other thought activity. So memory is a form of thought. Memories are present thoughts that arise and pass in present-moment awareness. Practically speaking, memory seems to be a function that ties together, coordinates and recalls former thoughts. It appears to store concepts and images and bring them forth. Conditioned beliefs, such as the notion of being a separate self and all the related identifications, survive in memory. Without memory, they have no substance, no continuity, no real existence. So, in a sense, you can say that all our problems are due to the capacity of memory. All of our beliefs, points of view and assumptions appear to be stored there. Furthermore, the reference point of a fixed āIā, thinker or self only resides in memory.
Memory as a thing in itself is hard to pin down. It is like the concept of āthe mindā. Where is āthe mindā? There are thoughts passing through awareness, but where is āthe mindā apart from that? It is the same with memory. We posit such a function or entity, but where is it apart from the presently arising thoughts? It just so happens that we label some presently occurring thoughts as memories. Then we assume a past to which those memories refer. In this way, a whole conceptual world is spun up in thoughts. But they are all occurring here and now in present awareness. It is castles in air being constructed in thought. In a moment, we are conceiving of a past time, a past world, a past entity that was in that world, a memory to hold all that and ourselves as some of kind being present in the middle of all of it. But take a deeper look and see what is going on. In present awareness, present thoughts are appearing and disappearing. It is all purely conceptual, purely imagined. Time, the external world and the separate entity are all posited in thought. They are taken as real, but are not actually present as substantial things in themselves.
This is easy to see in the case of a dream. You fall into a dream state. In that dream state, you have a discussion with a friend about something you did together five years ago (in the dream). A normal conversation occurs and you and your dream friend discuss various events that happened. Appropriate memories appear to corroborate everything. When you wake up you look back and see that it was all fabricated in the mind in the moment of dreaming. There was no past at all. Not to mention that there were no real dream characters either! It was all appearances taken as real. However, awareness stands beyond, free and untouched. It is not even in the dream. The dream is in it. It suffers no limitations occurring in the dream. The awareness itself is no limited appearance in the dream. It is not any particular entity or object in the dream. It is the same with our present awareness in this apparent waking state.
Conventionally, you can say that the mind creates the notion of a substantial, independent self and that this belief is sustained in memory. There is no harm in that as far as it goes. But the truth is that it is all simply present thoughts. And there is no separate thinker or āmeā to be found.
Your actual identity is that space-like, utterly free awareness itself. All self-centered thoughts are baseless, as there is no one to whom they apply. See this clearly and there is really nothing else needed. It is the heart of the matter. Seeing this, suffering, doubt, seeking and personal problems vanish entirely.
Holger:
“Before Abraham was I am.”
“I am with you always.”
āI have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.ā
“The world” is thoughts, feelings, perceptions.
“Who do you say I am?”What are you?
The answer is not in the mind, is not in the realm of thinking (thisĀ world). ā¤ļø
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Kat: This aging face
From Katrijn Van Oudheusden.
The event
Iām at the hairdresser, looking at this face with all its sagging bits that I swear werenāt there the last time I was here. I notice that no matter how I tilt my head or stretch my features, those bits stubbornly remain right there, literally in my face. The hairdresser notices, smiles knowingly, and tells me to hold still while she works on the part of my appearance she can alter.
The interpretation
The body is quite obviously aging. It seems to have accelerated lately, approaching 50. There are so many beliefs around aging. Here are two you might recognize ā and it can be interesting to add your own:
- Staying healthy while aging is due to how well you took care of yourself. Health aging is your achievement, unhealthy aging is your own damn fault.
- The worst aspect of aging is when you become dependent on others. This must be delayed or ideally avoided at all costs.
Of course, these beliefs cause unease or even suffering. But hereās the frustrating bit: we believe weāre not supposed to have these beliefs!
Because weāre spiritually advanced enough to know weāre not the body, right? And we know that aging is part of life, not something to try to avoid or manage. And if we were truly awake weād no longer care about bodily things and just rest in the peace of pure awareness all the time ā¦
The inquiry ā please pause at every point to check if itās true
- Is it a problem that these beliefs appear, or is the problem that we think they shouldnāt?
- Do you control what you believe? Belief simply means a thought is currently accepted as true. Please look carefully. Donāt continue until the answer is clear from your own experience.
- So if we say, donāt believe your thoughts, or question your beliefs ā who is going to make that happen? It could happen. It does happen. But is anyone in control of it happening?
- Believing something, for 5 seconds or 50 years, is spontaneous. You have no say in the matter.
- No one has control over what they believe. Imagine if we all knew and lived this!
- Then can our beliefs in any way define us?
- What knows all beliefs as they come and go? Stop and recognize that.
- Is that ever changed or affected by beliefs?
- Could this unaffected, ever-present knowing be what we are?
Stay in the seeing and be free.
Kat.
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